Comments on: Better to have loved and lost? http://www.unrequited-love.com/2009/01/better-to-have-loved-and-lost/ When good love goes nowhere... Thu, 02 Feb 2012 13:51:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Jen http://www.unrequited-love.com/2009/01/better-to-have-loved-and-lost/comment-page-1/#comment-1206 Jen Wed, 23 Jun 2010 20:10:07 +0000 http://www.unrequited-love.com/?p=126#comment-1206 I'd rather that I'd never fallen in love with him. I'd rather that I'd taken the chance when I had it,but it's a bit late for that. He is a genuinely lovely guy and just knowing him has been amazing, but the bad times far outweigh the good. Not only am I wasting my time, he lost a friend because I stopped talking to him, hoping that it would go away. Everyone would have been better off if I'd just been able to feel bad for a day or two and the get over it. I’d rather that I’d never fallen in love with him. I’d rather that I’d taken the chance when I had it,but it’s a bit late for that. He is a genuinely lovely guy and just knowing him has been amazing, but the bad times far outweigh the good. Not only am I wasting my time, he lost a friend because I stopped talking to him, hoping that it would go away. Everyone would have been better off if I’d just been able to feel bad for a day or two and the get over it.

]]> By: Nikki http://www.unrequited-love.com/2009/01/better-to-have-loved-and-lost/comment-page-1/#comment-1135 Nikki Sun, 02 May 2010 20:50:13 +0000 http://www.unrequited-love.com/?p=126#comment-1135 Think how different it would be if you never met the one person who changed everything... Think how different it would be if you never met the one person who changed everything…

]]> By: reba http://www.unrequited-love.com/2009/01/better-to-have-loved-and-lost/comment-page-1/#comment-1070 reba Mon, 22 Mar 2010 01:30:56 +0000 http://www.unrequited-love.com/?p=126#comment-1070 I'll have to remember the love never being lost by washinton irving;;;the feeling of love i have for john I don't regret...it is the casualty of it now that is killing me.....perhaps in a year I will be strong enough to come away better but part of me never wants to stop smiling when I think of him,.i COULD DO WITHOUT THE PAIN THO I’ll have to remember the love never being lost by washinton irving;;;the feeling of love i have for john I don’t regret…it is the casualty of it now that is killing me…..perhaps in a year I will be strong enough to come away better but part of me never wants to stop smiling when I think of him,.i COULD DO WITHOUT THE PAIN THO

]]> By: Adaptation http://www.unrequited-love.com/2009/01/better-to-have-loved-and-lost/comment-page-1/#comment-497 Adaptation Thu, 27 Aug 2009 20:51:58 +0000 http://www.unrequited-love.com/?p=126#comment-497 I ask myself, am i better for knowing her and loving her? Of course, I always say yes. Even the other lost loves from years gone by, I can say that about. When I stop believing in the reasons that created my love for her, am I not condemning my own mind? If she's changed so much, or my love was so much based in fantasy, then that's one thing. But if the love that I alone endured is based on her true being, then simply because I cannot have her or she doesn't want me are not good enough reasons for me to wish I never loved her. Hope that makes sense. Not sure it came out as intended. I ask myself, am i better for knowing her and loving her? Of course, I always say yes. Even the other lost loves from years gone by, I can say that about. When I stop believing in the reasons that created my love for her, am I not condemning my own mind?

If she’s changed so much, or my love was so much based in fantasy, then that’s one thing. But if the love that I alone endured is based on her true being, then simply because I cannot have her or she doesn’t want me are not good enough reasons for me to wish I never loved her.

Hope that makes sense. Not sure it came out as intended.

]]> By: Lonesome Loser http://www.unrequited-love.com/2009/01/better-to-have-loved-and-lost/comment-page-1/#comment-496 Lonesome Loser Thu, 27 Aug 2009 20:25:06 +0000 http://www.unrequited-love.com/?p=126#comment-496 I'd like to say I agree with Adaptation, and with my earlier self, but now I'm not so sure. I have found myself wishing I had never fallen in love with her, never even met her. I find myself hoping I will never see her again. I can't stand the thought of seeing her knowing she's married, knowing she knows I liked/loved/had-a-crush-on/became-limerent-over, her and she didn't feel the same. I hate it. Hate feeling she is happy elsewhere with someone else, but also like to feel she is happy elsewhere even though it is with someone else. I don't know, it's been a motivating experience, but a very painful one. I’d like to say I agree with Adaptation, and with my earlier self, but now I’m not so sure. I have found myself wishing I had never fallen in love with her, never even met her. I find myself hoping I will never see her again. I can’t stand the thought of seeing her knowing she’s married, knowing she knows I liked/loved/had-a-crush-on/became-limerent-over, her and she didn’t feel the same. I hate it. Hate feeling she is happy elsewhere with someone else, but also like to feel she is happy elsewhere even though it is with someone else. I don’t know, it’s been a motivating experience, but a very painful one.

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