Comments on: Echoes http://www.unrequited-love.com/2009/11/echoes/ When good love goes nowhere... Thu, 02 Feb 2012 13:51:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: sivan http://www.unrequited-love.com/2009/11/echoes/comment-page-1/#comment-11058 sivan Tue, 08 Nov 2011 23:16:29 +0000 http://www.unrequited-love.com/?p=632#comment-11058 hi i am a master's student in clinical psychology and i am very interested in doing my thesis on the subject of unrequited love and its relation to the different attachent styles. i have some general ideas to investigate. however if it is possible to et some help from anyone in the subject, it would be more than great.. i need it.. thanks Sivan hi

i am a master’s student in clinical psychology and i am very interested in doing my thesis on the subject of unrequited love and its relation to the different attachent styles. i have some general ideas to investigate. however if it is possible to et some help from anyone in the subject, it would be more than great.. i need it..

thanks
Sivan

]]> By: gardiner http://www.unrequited-love.com/2009/11/echoes/comment-page-1/#comment-1113 gardiner Sun, 11 Apr 2010 18:22:39 +0000 http://www.unrequited-love.com/?p=632#comment-1113 I find psychological representation very confusing to sa\y the least. Much better the biological (behaviourist) approach that gives a clear definition of "Unrequited Love" - An infantile bond recognition pathway, that has failed, is dysfunctionally repeating itself in adult life. Hence we do not form an actual bond with the 'adored one' which explains why our adoration is never retured. With "infatuation", a Pair Bond is formed between the partners which uses a co-extensive brain pathway. Hence the close similarity in the 'feelings' described by each catagory. I have suffered 2 Bonds and 2 ULs plus 1 PROPER LOVE my wife!!!! I find psychological representation very confusing to sa\y the least.
Much better the biological (behaviourist) approach that gives a clear definition of “Unrequited Love” – An infantile bond recognition pathway, that has failed, is dysfunctionally repeating itself in adult life. Hence we do not form an actual bond with the ‘adored one’ which explains why our adoration is never retured.
With “infatuation”, a Pair Bond is formed between the partners which uses a co-extensive brain pathway. Hence the close similarity in the ‘feelings’ described by each catagory.
I have suffered 2 Bonds and 2 ULs plus 1 PROPER LOVE my wife!!!!

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