The Awkward Signs of Love
Posted By Lonesome Loser on December 29, 2010
You know all those weird or embarrassing ways we can act around our loved one? We all do it. It’s very common to be nervous around your loved one when in romantic love, especially in unrequited love, when you’re feeling unnoticed or unchosen.
They are signs of unconscious (or conscious) conflict, or signs of general physiological arousal, or just signs of your overheated brain taking a vacation… Whatever may motivate those awkward behaviors, they are all signs of love. What signs of love have you shown around your loved one?
Once again l.l. great post spot on. i long to see the man i am in love with but when i get the chance i am a nervous wreck unaware of all things around me but him and all i do is gaze at him and cannot tear my eyes away.
Do you think that because he is frustrated that both of us can’t be together because we both are married to other people, at times he focuses his attention on another married co-worker in front of me? I actually don’t know if he asks her questions about her relationship with her husband like he asks me, or tells her that he thinks she is pretty, like he tells me. He does focus a lot of attention on this younger co-worker though.
Yes, I think it’s entirely possible that he is focusing on a coworker in front of you to stir up a reaction or make you jealous.
How certain are you that he is definitely interested in you? Do you feel he is in love with you? Or is it possible he is more or less equally attracted to both you and this coworker?
Hey, I’ve just recently found that my liking for someone was unrequited love. He indirectly confessed to me three years ago and I had known he had liked me as he had shown me many vibes. At that point i was never interested in until he had confessed that was probably then i started liking him. Now that we attend the same university i still believe that he likes me as he shows me many liking towards me for instance he would stare at me for a while or he would just keep looking back me. My friends were always pushing me to go out with him but rumours says that he has a girlfriend. i usually investigate before i believe in rumours, so i went to his profile wall on Facebook and saw that he had something with someone and at that point i added him on Face book. What should i do? I’ve been waiting for his acceptance for the friend request. After founding out the truth I had a major headache and my eyes were about to shut. i also felt my throat tightened but i couldn’t cry because my eyes stung so bad . is this part of being heart-broken?
Anastatia K — yep, that sounds like heart-broken to me. I would suggest waiting for his acceptance as a friend on facebook, then start a casual conversation. See if he seems interested or keeps up contact. If he does, have a more honest conversation about your feelings and what you want. Hope it works out for you.