The Politics of Dancing

| September 9, 2009

“Finally, a new post!” (Sorry about the lack of attention I’ve been giving this site.  I’ll work on posting more frequently.) To tell or not to tell?  Should you tell your loved one that you are in love with him/her?  Why or why not?  I’ve been thinking about how it might be to tell my [...]

Sighs and Stares

| June 17, 2009

It’s interesting to notice how often we indirectly communicate romantic love and/or sexual attraction when we’re not really aware of doing so.  For example, facial expressions you aren’t aware of, standing too close to your Loved One, or avoiding standing too near them.  Maybe you talked too much about your Loved One with friends or [...]

When did you know you were in love?

| April 14, 2009

*This is another Discussion Question, meant for readers to respond to and talk about. Please offer comments… Was there a moment where you crossed the line, emotionally, from “before” to “after?” Was it more of a gradual awareness? Was it love at first sight? Was it something you ignored or fought against for a while, [...]

Better to have loved and lost?

| January 31, 2009

*This is another Discussion Question, meant for readers to respond to and talk about.  Please offer comments… If you could, would you take it back?  Knowing as you know now that your love is unrequited, would you still want to go through the experience of being in love with your loved one?  Is it better [...]

Unrequited Love or Crush?

| January 3, 2009

This is the first in a series of “discussion questions” intended to provoke a conversation from readers.  Please leave comments… Is unrequited love the same thing as a crush?  If so, how are they the same?  If not, how are they different? Personally, I would say they are different, that a crush involves more idealization, [...]

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