Lonesome Loser | December 30, 2008
Hi, it’s good to see folks visiting this website about the experience of unrequited love. This is meant to be a participatory discussion, not a monologue. Please leave comments! You don’t have to give personal information to comment. The system will ask for your name and an email address but you can just make stuff [...]
Lonesome Loser | March 7, 2010
Posts that are “coming soon” (as soon as I can find some time to craft them). Please offer any other suggestions either as a comment to this post, or email/contact me.
Survey/Questionnaire on being in love vs. being in like.
Survey/Questionnaire on level of passion you experience for Loved One.
Discussion of Dante, the original unrequited lover.
Discussion [...]
Lonesome Loser | February 17, 2010
Hi, everyone. I have been working on posting another quiz but having some trouble getting it to work the way it needs to work. But I wanted to post something, since it’s been too long since the last posting.
Also, it’s a few days after Valentine’s Day. I know Valentine’s Day can be [...]
Lonesome Loser | January 21, 2010
(Musicals on the mind today, sorry!)
I’ve been thinking about the tension between our perspectives, and those of our Loved Ones or others, and how opposed they often seem to be.
Would-be lovers see their love as “real,” whereas everyone else (including the Loved One) sees it as “unreal” or a “crush.” Very frustrating! This is just [...]
Lonesome Loser | December 24, 2009
I just want to argue for taking all this discussion, and every “expert” opinion on unrequited love (as well as romantic love in general) with several grains of salt. Basically, deciding whether you are in love or not is your decision. There is no surefire way to verify “for real” whether it’s love or not. [...]
Please feel free to contact me at LONESOME LOSER*, I'd love to hear from you. I will make every effort to answer each email.
*This moniker sounds considerably more pathetic than I actually feel, but I just couldn't resist the tongue-in-cheek description.
: Richard Walden, I love you with every cell of my body. You are the reason I exist, my "raison d'etre". You kept me sane. What [...]
: S- It's been 13 years since we saw each other, 11 since we last talked. Even though we parted under a cloud, I have never had [...]
: Joe, I love you with all my heart and if you you wake up one day and discover you're all alone, I'll still be there [...]
: Marilyn, Yes, I do love you...I am slowly letting you go, but it is so difficult sometimes when you seem to want my friendship even [...]
: If you truly knew how I felt; this is crazy but it's the truth; please find your way back to me; this is tearing me [...]
: To: J.B. I won't be that girl who cries in front of you just to get crumbs of your affection. I won't beg you to love [...]
: jairyl.....i hate u for being the one that i love
: Her name starts with S...when I looked into her eyes for the first time, something happened to me...I wasnt the same anymore...I changed my whole [...]
: If I could, I would stop loving you, Becker. I would stop, and turn away. But I just can't. I'm sorry.
: I know you love me....bryan
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