Hi!

| December 30, 2008

Hi, it’s good to see folks visiting this website about the experience of unrequited love.  This is meant to be a participatory discussion, not a monologue. Please leave comments!  You don’t have to give personal information to comment.  The system will ask for your name and an email address but you can just make stuff [...]

When Friends would be Lovers

| July 18, 2011

This post is in response to an email sent by a reader around July 5th… To “Jenn” regarding “John”: Hi Jenn, Let me make sure I understand. You heard John say he had a former crush on someone from a long time ago? Or is this a recent crush? The good thing to come of [...]

What’s So Great About Unrequited Love?

| June 27, 2011

Well, it turns out that quite a lot about unrequited love is great. Now, I’ll admit, usually when I recall my experiences with unrequited love, especially the most recent one, it’s not a particularly praiseworthy remembrance. I generally cringe and hit my forehead, undoubtedly looking like Homer J. Simpson (“doh!”). However, unrequited love really does [...]

Valentine’s Day – Funny

| February 14, 2011

Many of us may have shown or spoken our feelings only to have them shot down. But we all know Cupid is one tough toddler! Cupid gets right back up from that floor, wings fluttering and wounds restored, flitting around our heads yet again, whispering to us, singing happy songs, telling us Cupid just needs [...]

Valentine’s Day – Melancholy

| February 14, 2011

Ok, Valentine’s Day! I have been neglecting this site but I simply must post something for Valentine’s Day… Valentine’s Day, that most potent of days, for all lovers, even unrequited ones. Some of us in unrequited love may anxiously obsess, others may drift through the day draped in melancholy. So much of unrequited love involves [...]

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