The Awkward Signs of Love

| December 29, 2010

You know all  those weird or embarrassing ways we can act around our loved one? We all do it. It’s very common to be nervous around your loved one when in romantic love, especially in unrequited love, when you’re feeling unnoticed or unchosen. They are signs  of unconscious (or conscious) conflict, or signs of general [...]

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| December 28, 2010

Oops, I didn’t realize the contact form (“contact the author“) wasn’t working correctly. I believe I have fixed the problem. I’m sorry for any inconvenience. LL

Got Low Self-Esteem?

| November 4, 2010

Hi, I thought I’d start writing some posts built around some of the search terms that are frequently used to find this site.  A really frequent phrase combo is something like “unrequited love low self-esteem.”  Many people wonder what it means to fall in unrequited love, does it mean you have low self-esteem for “choosing” [...]

Charlie Brown and the Little Red-Haired Girl

| July 30, 2010

This is perhaps one of the most well-known stories of unrequited love.  It’s helpful in terms of communicating the experience of unrequited love or limerence to others, as most everyone (at least in U.S. culture) is familiar with the story and we can all empathize with Charlie Brown’s longing, fear of not being good enough, [...]

Primer for Handling a Declaration of Unrequited Love

| July 30, 2010

The perspectives of the Loved Ones are discussed and will continue to be discussed in various posts on this blog, but this post in particular is intended to be the more matter-of-fact, “How to Handle a Declaration of Unrequited Love, For Dummies” version. First, you need to decide (and this shouldn’t be difficult) whether the [...]

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