When Friends would be Lovers

| July 18, 2011

This post is in response to an email sent by a reader around July 5th… To “Jenn” regarding “John”: Hi Jenn, Let me make sure I understand. You heard John say he had a former crush on someone from a long time ago? Or is this a recent crush? The good thing to come of [...]

What’s So Great About Unrequited Love?

| June 27, 2011

Well, it turns out that quite a lot about unrequited love is great. Now, I’ll admit, usually when I recall my experiences with unrequited love, especially the most recent one, it’s not a particularly praiseworthy remembrance. I generally cringe and hit my forehead, undoubtedly looking like Homer J. Simpson (“doh!”). However, unrequited love really does [...]

The Serious Costs of Seriously Unrequited Love

| February 17, 2009

Seriously, now.  I’ve noticed a few search-initiated hits on the post “The Costs of Unrequited Love”, so I figure visitors must be interested in a more serious treatment of the subject.  So, the costs of unrequited love… First and foremost, the most obvious cost to me seems to be the blows to our ego we [...]

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