Temporary Post

Lonesome Loser | March 7, 2010

Posts that are “coming soon” (as soon as I can find some time to craft them). Please offer any other suggestions either as a comment to this post, or email/contact me.
Survey/Questionnaire on being in love vs. being in like.
Survey/Questionnaire on level of passion you experience for Loved One.
Discussion of Dante, the original unrequited lover.
Discussion [...]

The Definition is Yours

Lonesome Loser | December 24, 2009

I just want to argue for taking all this discussion, and every “expert” opinion on unrequited love (as well as romantic love in general) with several grains of salt.  Basically, deciding whether you are in love or not is your decision.  There is no surefire way to verify “for real” whether it’s love or not.  [...]

What are they thinking!?

Lonesome Loser | November 20, 2009

What do those pesky Loved Ones think about us?  It would be good to be able to talk about unrequited love from all sides.  I’m still having trouble getting enough responses to the survey on being the focus of unrequited love.  I want to hear more from this perspective — including from us for those [...]

The Politics of Dancing

Lonesome Loser | September 9, 2009

“Finally, a new post!”
(Sorry about the lack of attention I’ve been giving this site.  I’ll work on posting more frequently.)
To tell or not to tell?  Should you tell your loved one that you are in love with him/her?  Why or why not?  I’ve been thinking about how it might be to tell my loved one [...]

Sighs and Stares

Lonesome Loser | June 17, 2009

It’s interesting to notice how often we indirectly communicate romantic love and/or sexual attraction when we’re not really aware of doing so.  For example, facial expressions you aren’t aware of, standing too close to your Loved One, or avoiding standing too near them.  Maybe you talked too much about your Loved One with friends or [...]

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