Lonesome Loser | March 8, 2009
The intention of this website is to explore the nature of unrequited love from both experiential and social psychological perspectives. It includes articles and discussions of unrequited love from a non-pathologized viewpoint, links and a bookstore (via amazon.com) containing recommendations that might be of help or interest to the unrequited lover, an open invitation to [...]
Lonesome Loser | March 4, 2009
<A HREF=”http://ws.amazon.com/widgets/q?ServiceVersion=20070822&MarketPlace=US&ID=V20070822%2FUS%2Funreqlove-20%2F8001%2F000b761a-bb50-4b39-90f2-87cb2c1aff12&Operation=NoScript” mce_HREF=”http://ws.amazon.com/widgets/q?ServiceVersion=20070822&MarketPlace=US&ID=V20070822%2FUS%2Funreqlove-20%2F8001%2F000b761a-bb50-4b39-90f2-87cb2c1aff12&Operation=NoScript”>Amazon.com Widgets</A> *SPOILER WARNING: All film discussions may include information that would spoil the ending for viewers who have not yet seen the film. Far North (2008) is a sparse film, with only three real characters and not a lot of dialogue. Still, I found it arresting and disturbing, with unrequited love as [...]
Lonesome Loser | February 10, 2009
*SPOILER WARNING: All film discussions may include information that would spoil the ending for viewers who have not yet seen the film. Snow Falling on Cedars (1999)is a haunting and understated film on the pain of unrequited love (amongst other themes). The protagonist and would-be lover is Ishmael, played by Ethan Hawke. Set in the [...]
Lonesome Loser | January 31, 2009
*This is another Discussion Question, meant for readers to respond to and talk about. Please offer comments… If you could, would you take it back? Knowing as you know now that your love is unrequited, would you still want to go through the experience of being in love with your loved one? Is it better [...]
Lonesome Loser | January 3, 2009
This is the first in a series of “discussion questions” intended to provoke a conversation from readers. Please leave comments… Is unrequited love the same thing as a crush? If so, how are they the same? If not, how are they different? Personally, I would say they are different, that a crush involves more idealization, [...]
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*This moniker sounds considerably more pathetic than I actually feel, but I just couldn't resist the tongue-in-cheek description.
: I offered you the best that I could offer. It wasn't enough for you. My love lasts forever, but now, I will no longer act on it, I will [...]
: 4 years and i still feel as strongely as i did when i first met you.now that highschool is over tomorrow may be the last [...]
: Carol, 14 years older than I am. I'm her intern and I shouldn't have fallen for her, but I did...
: I love you so much Michael....so very much.
: Kelly. The earth has moved nearly fifteen billion miles through space since the hour you called me and told me you did not love me, [...]
: I love you very much, Marilyn. Despite the circumstances (as I continue to struggle with it for the past four years), I will always [...]
: I love you Deborah. And I'm willing to live out my life as a spinster if that'll keep you happy.
: What does she give you that I cant?
: Brian, I love you. I know you felt something for me at one point but I didn't see it then and I only have myself [...]
: Lizzie, you just have no idea. I never gave up. I've lost count of the number of times my heart has been stabbed, but I [...]
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