Lonesome Loser | January 21, 2010
(Musicals on the mind today, sorry!)
I’ve been thinking about the tension between our perspectives, and those of our Loved Ones or others, and how opposed they often seem to be.
Would-be lovers see their love as “real,” whereas everyone else (including the Loved One) sees it as “unreal” or a “crush.” Very frustrating! This is just [...]
Lonesome Loser | October 13, 2009
Here is a quiz on how we show our love, even if we don’t want to show it. Please email me if you have trouble viewing the quiz or it is not working correctly, this is the first time I’ve used this service:
How Do You Show Your Love? » Quiz Make
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Lonesome Loser | January 17, 2009
Money spent on gifts for loved one, cell phone bills, and finally, therapy…
$1000
Time lost to obsessive fantasy, crying, and avoiding all social outlets…
1000 hours
Effort exerted trying to move mountains that simply refuse to budge…
10,000 watts every day
Knowing you have the capacity to love…
Priceless
(See also “The Serious Costs of Seriously Unrequited Love“).
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Lonesome Loser | December 28, 2008
Things people will tell you, none of which are particularly helpful:
You’ll get over it.
Just be happy you feel this way about someone, even if they don’t feel the same.
Obviously, you’re too neurotic/immature to fall for someone who is actually available to you.
It’s just _____ {insert any [...]
Please feel free to contact me at LONESOME LOSER*, I'd love to hear from you. I will make every effort to answer each email.
*This moniker sounds considerably more pathetic than I actually feel, but I just couldn't resist the tongue-in-cheek description.
: Kelly Knight
: im in love with ryan the guy ive met once. yet thnx to the internet i gwt to talk to every day [...]
: Richard Walden, I love you with every cell of my body. You are the reason I exist, my "raison d'etre". You kept me sane. What [...]
: S- It's been 13 years since we saw each other, 11 since we last talked. Even though we parted under a cloud, I have never had [...]
: Joe, I love you with all my heart and if you you wake up one day and discover you're all alone, I'll still be there [...]
: Marilyn, Yes, I do love you...I am slowly letting you go, but it is so difficult sometimes when you seem to want my friendship even [...]
: If you truly knew how I felt; this is crazy but it's the truth; please find your way back to me; this is tearing me [...]
: To: J.B. I won't be that girl who cries in front of you just to get crumbs of your affection. I won't beg you to love [...]
: jairyl.....i hate u for being the one that i love
: Her name starts with S...when I looked into her eyes for the first time, something happened to me...I wasnt the same anymore...I changed my whole [...]
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