Lonesome Loser | February 14, 2011
Many of us may have shown or spoken our feelings only to have them shot down. But we all know Cupid is one tough toddler! Cupid gets right back up from that floor, wings fluttering and wounds restored, flitting around our heads yet again, whispering to us, singing happy songs, telling us Cupid just needs [...]
Lonesome Loser | May 22, 2010
Funny how we hear things we want to hear, and ignore things we wish weren’t true. It’s human nature, we all do it for any number of reasons. The dual lenses of denial and rose-coloring in the bifocal glasses that we all use is particularly distorting in unrequited love. Loved Ones say things we over [...]
Lonesome Loser | January 21, 2010
(Musicals on the mind today, sorry!) I’ve been thinking about the tension between our perspectives, and those of our Loved Ones or others, and how opposed they often seem to be. Would-be lovers see their love as “real,” whereas everyone else (including the Loved One) sees it as “unreal” or a “crush.” Very frustrating! This [...]
Lonesome Loser | October 13, 2009
Here is a quiz on how we show our love, even if we don’t want to show it. Please email me if you have trouble viewing the quiz or it is not working correctly, this is the first time I’ve used this service: How Do You Show Your Love? » Quiz Make
Lonesome Loser | January 17, 2009
Money spent on gifts for loved one, cell phone bills, and finally, therapy… $1000 Time lost to obsessive fantasy, crying, and avoiding all social outlets… 1000 hours Effort exerted trying to move mountains that simply refuse to budge… 10,000 watts every day Knowing you have the capacity to love… Priceless (See also “The Serious Costs [...]
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: Becky , my work colleague for over 10 years. Such a beautiful friend. I'm sorry that I fell in love with you - I know [...]
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: Michael, I know you love me and I wish I could let you know just how I want to return that love. Each time [...]
: RR, when you came on chat earlier, i had an army of butterflies in my stomach. literally, i was shivering because i can't keep my nerves [...]
: Renata Szostek is such a beautiful human being. Being in her presence was a constant reminder of just how much I needed to grow [...]
: Lin. Today I found out that you got engaged to someone else. I wish I could stop thinking about you but I [...]
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