Lonesome Loser | July 18, 2011
This post is in response to an email sent by a reader around July 5th… To “Jenn” regarding “John”: Hi Jenn, Let me make sure I understand. You heard John say he had a former crush on someone from a long time ago? Or is this a recent crush? The good thing to come of [...]
Lonesome Loser | July 30, 2010
The perspectives of the Loved Ones are discussed and will continue to be discussed in various posts on this blog, but this post in particular is intended to be the more matter-of-fact, “How to Handle a Declaration of Unrequited Love, For Dummies” version. First, you need to decide (and this shouldn’t be difficult) whether the [...]
Lonesome Loser | May 12, 2010
Are you in love or in like? Is there a difference between friendship and love? Social science research says, yes, there is a difference. The “Like or Love Survey” link-button below will open a survey on this page that may help you decide if what you feel for a particular person is more similar to [...]
Lonesome Loser | March 30, 2010
So, someone has declared their undying love for you. And you don’t feel the same. How uncomfortable! Someone saying they are in love with you when you don’t love them in return is an experience most of us wish we would never have. However, the truth is that it is actually an experience that most [...]
Lonesome Loser | March 16, 2009
Unfortunately, there’s not really a check-list answer to this question, but I’ll try to offer one, anyway. Understand the following is over-simplified and over-generalized. Wait it out. Passage of time is probably the single most important component. The amount of time varies from person to person but if it’s really unrequited love, it will take [...]
Please feel free to contact me at LONESOME LOSER*, I'd love to hear from you. I will make every effort to answer each email.
*This moniker sounds considerably more pathetic than I actually feel, but I just couldn't resist the tongue-in-cheek description.
: Becky , my work colleague for over 10 years. Such a beautiful friend. I'm sorry that I fell in love with you - I know [...]
: i love you keith roberson
: wishing you every happiness this year & ever after i'm very sorry about your tia still look you up still dream of you i'm sorry s
: It started out just a fling, and progressed so quickly. I fell in love you a little more each night we spent together. [...]
: Michael, I know you love me and I wish I could let you know just how I want to return that love. Each time [...]
: RR, when you came on chat earlier, i had an army of butterflies in my stomach. literally, i was shivering because i can't keep my nerves [...]
: Renata Szostek is such a beautiful human being. Being in her presence was a constant reminder of just how much I needed to grow [...]
: Lin. Today I found out that you got engaged to someone else. I wish I could stop thinking about you but I [...]
: Camilla. I love her so much. Everything about her. She's so nice, caring, understanding. She's beyond beautiful, I think she is the most amazing thing [...]
: Eleanor Varley I love you.
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