Lonesome Loser | July 30, 2010
The perspectives of the Loved Ones are discussed and will continue to be discussed in various posts on this blog, but this post in particular is intended to be the more matter-of-fact, “How to Handle a Declaration of Unrequited Love, For Dummies” version. First, you need to decide (and this shouldn’t be difficult) whether the [...]
Lonesome Loser | May 12, 2010
Are you in love or in like? Is there a difference between friendship and love? Social science research says, yes, there is a difference. The link “View Survey” below will open a survey on this page that may help you decide if what you feel for a particular person is more similar to being “in [...]
Lonesome Loser | March 30, 2010
So, someone has declared their undying love for you. And you don’t feel the same. How uncomfortable! Someone saying they are in love with you when you don’t love them in return is an experience most of us wish we would never have. However, the truth is that it is actually an experience that most [...]
Lonesome Loser | March 16, 2009
Unfortunately, there’s not really a check-list answer to this question, but I’ll try to offer one, anyway. Understand the following is over-simplified and over-generalized. Wait it out. Passage of time is probably the single most important component. The amount of time varies from person to person but if it’s really unrequited love, it will take [...]
Lonesome Loser | December 28, 2008
Things people will tell you, none of which are particularly helpful: You’ll get over it. Just be happy you feel this way about someone, even if they don’t feel the same. Obviously, you’re too neurotic/immature to fall for someone who is actually available to you. It’s just _____ {insert any of the following words or [...]
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*This moniker sounds considerably more pathetic than I actually feel, but I just couldn't resist the tongue-in-cheek description.
: I offered you the best that I could offer. It wasn't enough for you. My love lasts forever, but now, I will no longer act on it, I will [...]
: 4 years and i still feel as strongely as i did when i first met you.now that highschool is over tomorrow may be the last [...]
: Carol, 14 years older than I am. I'm her intern and I shouldn't have fallen for her, but I did...
: I love you so much Michael....so very much.
: Kelly. The earth has moved nearly fifteen billion miles through space since the hour you called me and told me you did not love me, [...]
: I love you very much, Marilyn. Despite the circumstances (as I continue to struggle with it for the past four years), I will always [...]
: I love you Deborah. And I'm willing to live out my life as a spinster if that'll keep you happy.
: What does she give you that I cant?
: Brian, I love you. I know you felt something for me at one point but I didn't see it then and I only have myself [...]
: Lizzie, you just have no idea. I never gave up. I've lost count of the number of times my heart has been stabbed, but I [...]
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