Lonesome Loser | May 22, 2010
Funny how we hear things we want to hear, and ignore things we wish weren’t true. It’s human nature, we all do it for any number of reasons. The dual lenses of denial and rose-coloring in the bifocal glasses that we all use is particularly distorting in unrequited love. Loved Ones say things we over [...]
Lonesome Loser | March 30, 2010
So, someone has declared their undying love for you. And you don’t feel the same. How uncomfortable! Someone saying they are in love with you when you don’t love them in return is an experience most of us wish we would never have. However, the truth is that it is actually an experience that most [...]
Lonesome Loser | December 24, 2009
I just want to argue for taking all this discussion, and every “expert” opinion on unrequited love (as well as romantic love in general) with several grains of salt. Basically, deciding whether you are in love or not is your decision. There is no surefire way to verify “for real” whether it’s love or not. [...]
Lonesome Loser | April 21, 2009
Great question! Not an easy one to answer. I’m working on an online quiz for love vs. crush, but it’s still in development. Scientifically, there is no clear or universally accepted definition for being in love. However, there is a universally observable phenomenon that is variously known as a crush, infatuation, being in love, romantic [...]
Lonesome Loser | January 17, 2009
(I need to reiterate that “The Naming Wall” is a place for us to name the person we are/were in love with, not a place to post quotes or stories. Please do post your personal stories, quotes, etc., as comments in response to regular posts.) Admit it. You’re in love or you have been in [...]
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*This moniker sounds considerably more pathetic than I actually feel, but I just couldn't resist the tongue-in-cheek description.
: Becky , my work colleague for over 10 years. Such a beautiful friend. I'm sorry that I fell in love with you - I know [...]
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: wishing you every happiness this year & ever after i'm very sorry about your tia still look you up still dream of you i'm sorry s
: It started out just a fling, and progressed so quickly. I fell in love you a little more each night we spent together. [...]
: Michael, I know you love me and I wish I could let you know just how I want to return that love. Each time [...]
: RR, when you came on chat earlier, i had an army of butterflies in my stomach. literally, i was shivering because i can't keep my nerves [...]
: Renata Szostek is such a beautiful human being. Being in her presence was a constant reminder of just how much I needed to grow [...]
: Lin. Today I found out that you got engaged to someone else. I wish I could stop thinking about you but I [...]
: Camilla. I love her so much. Everything about her. She's so nice, caring, understanding. She's beyond beautiful, I think she is the most amazing thing [...]
: Eleanor Varley I love you.
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