When did you know you were in love?

| April 14, 2009

*This is another Discussion Question, meant for readers to respond to and talk about. Please offer comments… Was there a moment where you crossed the line, emotionally, from “before” to “after?” Was it more of a gradual awareness? Was it love at first sight? Was it something you ignored or fought against for a while, [...]

Can Love Last?

| March 25, 2009

Yes! I have always felt (or hoped, really) that romantic love, including the sexual element, can last a lifetime.  But the general message from society has been that it doesn’t last, it is replaced with a deep friendship-type love. Well, I found an article at the American Psychological Association website saying yes, indeed, romantic love [...]

On Frogs

| January 21, 2009

You know that old adage that goes something like “if you dissect a frog in order to understand it better, it isn’t a frog anymore, just a bunch of lifeless pieces.”  I believe this is the case with romantic love, as well.  The whole is greater than the sum of its parts.  This doesn’t mean [...]

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