Temporary Post

Lonesome Loser | March 7, 2010

Posts that are “coming soon” (as soon as I can find some time to craft them). Please offer any other suggestions either as a comment to this post, or email/contact me.
Survey/Questionnaire on being in love vs. being in like.
Survey/Questionnaire on level of passion you experience for Loved One.
Discussion of Dante, the original unrequited lover.
Discussion [...]

The Definition is Yours

Lonesome Loser | December 24, 2009

I just want to argue for taking all this discussion, and every “expert” opinion on unrequited love (as well as romantic love in general) with several grains of salt.  Basically, deciding whether you are in love or not is your decision.  There is no surefire way to verify “for real” whether it’s love or not.  [...]

Echoes

Lonesome Loser | November 28, 2009

Here’s a post for those of us who like questionnaires, charts, graphs, all the various accoutrements of science that make us feel things are more official.
Briefly, attachment theory is a psychological theory of relationships that suggests our relationship styles with parental figures in early infancy predict our relationship styles as adults.  In other words, our [...]

Slightly Drunk Post

Lonesome Loser | November 27, 2009

Please forgive the overly personal nature of this post.  I’m trying not to re-start my personal blog, I need it to be finished at some point, but I’m really feeling the desire to write from a personal perspective the last few days.
I’ve recently returned from Thanksgiving dinner at my (former) in-laws, while (ex)spouse is visiting [...]

Oops, your love is showing!

Lonesome Loser | October 13, 2009

Here is a quiz on how we show our love, even if we don’t want to show it. Please email me if you have trouble viewing the quiz or it is not working correctly, this is the first time I’ve used this service:

How Do You Show Your Love? » Quiz Make
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