Lonesome Loser | December 30, 2008
Hi, it’s good to see folks visiting this website about the experience of unrequited love. This is meant to be a participatory discussion, not a monologue. Please leave comments! You don’t have to give personal information to comment. The system will ask for your name and an email address but you can just make stuff [...]
Lonesome Loser | May 12, 2010
Are you in love or in like? Is there a difference between friendship and love? Social science research says, yes, there is a difference. The “Like or Love Survey” link-button below will open a survey on this page that may help you decide if what you feel for a particular person is more similar to [...]
Lonesome Loser | December 24, 2009
I just want to argue for taking all this discussion, and every “expert” opinion on unrequited love (as well as romantic love in general) with several grains of salt. Basically, deciding whether you are in love or not is your decision. There is no surefire way to verify “for real” whether it’s love or not. [...]
Lonesome Loser | November 28, 2009
Here’s a post for those of us who like questionnaires, charts, graphs, all the various accoutrements of science that make us feel things are more official. Briefly, attachment theory is a psychological theory of relationships that suggests our relationship styles with parental figures in early infancy predict our relationship styles as adults. In other words, [...]
Lonesome Loser | November 27, 2009
Please forgive the overly personal nature of this post. I’m trying not to re-start my personal blog, I need it to be finished at some point, but I’m really feeling the desire to write from a personal perspective the last few days. I’ve recently returned from Thanksgiving dinner at my (former) in-laws, while (ex)spouse is [...]
Please feel free to contact me at LONESOME LOSER*, I'd love to hear from you. I will make every effort to answer each email.
*This moniker sounds considerably more pathetic than I actually feel, but I just couldn't resist the tongue-in-cheek description.
: Becky , my work colleague for over 10 years. Such a beautiful friend. I'm sorry that I fell in love with you - I know [...]
: i love you keith roberson
: wishing you every happiness this year & ever after i'm very sorry about your tia still look you up still dream of you i'm sorry s
: It started out just a fling, and progressed so quickly. I fell in love you a little more each night we spent together. [...]
: Michael, I know you love me and I wish I could let you know just how I want to return that love. Each time [...]
: RR, when you came on chat earlier, i had an army of butterflies in my stomach. literally, i was shivering because i can't keep my nerves [...]
: Renata Szostek is such a beautiful human being. Being in her presence was a constant reminder of just how much I needed to grow [...]
: Lin. Today I found out that you got engaged to someone else. I wish I could stop thinking about you but I [...]
: Camilla. I love her so much. Everything about her. She's so nice, caring, understanding. She's beyond beautiful, I think she is the most amazing thing [...]
: Eleanor Varley I love you.
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