Like or Love?

Lonesome Loser | May 12, 2010

Are you in love or in like? Is there a difference between friendship and love? Social science research says, yes, there is a difference. The link “View Survey” below will open a survey on this page that may help you decide if what you feel for a particular person is more similar to being “in [...]

Echoes

Lonesome Loser | November 28, 2009

Here’s a post for those of us who like questionnaires, charts, graphs, all the various accoutrements of science that make us feel things are more official. Briefly, attachment theory is a psychological theory of relationships that suggests our relationship styles with parental figures in early infancy predict our relationship styles as adults.  In other words, [...]

What are they thinking!?

Lonesome Loser | November 20, 2009

What do those pesky Loved Ones think about us?  It would be good to be able to talk about unrequited love from all sides.  I’m still having trouble getting enough responses to the survey on being the focus of unrequited love.  I want to hear more from this perspective — including from us for those [...]

Oops, your love is showing!

Lonesome Loser | October 13, 2009

Here is a quiz on how we show our love, even if we don’t want to show it. Please email me if you have trouble viewing the quiz or it is not working correctly, this is the first time I’ve used this service: How Do You Show Your Love? » Quiz Make Share/Save

About Website

Lonesome Loser | March 8, 2009

The intention of this website is to explore the nature of unrequited love from both experiential and social psychological perspectives. It includes articles and discussions of unrequited love from a non-pathologized viewpoint, links and a bookstore (via amazon.com) containing recommendations that might be of help or interest to the unrequited lover, an open invitation to [...]

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*This moniker sounds considerably more pathetic than I actually feel, but I just couldn't resist the tongue-in-cheek description.