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Lonesome Loser | March 7, 2010

Posts that are “coming soon” (as soon as I can find some time to craft them). Please offer any other suggestions either as a comment to this post, or email/contact me.
Survey/Questionnaire on being in love vs. being in like.
Survey/Questionnaire on level of passion you experience for Loved One.
Discussion of Dante, the original unrequited lover.
Discussion [...]

Echoes

Lonesome Loser | November 28, 2009

Here’s a post for those of us who like questionnaires, charts, graphs, all the various accoutrements of science that make us feel things are more official.
Briefly, attachment theory is a psychological theory of relationships that suggests our relationship styles with parental figures in early infancy predict our relationship styles as adults.  In other words, our [...]

What are they thinking!?

Lonesome Loser | November 20, 2009

What do those pesky Loved Ones think about us?  It would be good to be able to talk about unrequited love from all sides.  I’m still having trouble getting enough responses to the survey on being the focus of unrequited love.  I want to hear more from this perspective — including from us for those [...]

Oops, your love is showing!

Lonesome Loser | October 13, 2009

Here is a quiz on how we show our love, even if we don’t want to show it. Please email me if you have trouble viewing the quiz or it is not working correctly, this is the first time I’ve used this service:

How Do You Show Your Love? » Quiz Make
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About Website

Lonesome Loser | March 8, 2009

The intention of this website is to explore the nature of unrequited love from both experiential and social psychological perspectives. It includes a participatory discussion of unrequited love from a non-pathologized viewpoint, recommended links and books that might be of help or interest to the unrequited lover, an open invitation to participate in surveys on [...]

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Please feel free to contact me at LONESOME LOSER*, I'd love to hear from you. I will make every effort to answer each email.

*This moniker sounds considerably more pathetic than I actually feel, but I just couldn't resist the tongue-in-cheek description.