Oops, your love is showing!

| October 13, 2009

Here is a quiz on how we show our love, even if we don’t want to show it. Please email me if you have trouble viewing the quiz or it is not working correctly, this is the first time I’ve used this service: How Do You Show Your Love? » Quiz Make

Sighs and Stares

| June 17, 2009

It’s interesting to notice how often we indirectly communicate romantic love and/or sexual attraction when we’re not really aware of doing so.  For example, facial expressions you aren’t aware of, standing too close to your Loved One, or avoiding standing too near them.  Maybe you talked too much about your Loved One with friends or [...]

“Unrequited Love Isn’t Real”

| May 12, 2009

I’ve been surfing the net and finding there’s a lot of bad advice out there about unrequited love.  The superficial or manifest level of communication tends to go something like “Gee, that’s too bad.  It’s so painful.  This isn’t really love, it’s limerence.  It’s nothing to be ashamed of, but it is a place you [...]

How do you know when you are in love?

| April 21, 2009

Great question! Not an easy one to answer. I’m working on an online quiz for love vs. crush, but it’s still in development. Scientifically, there is no clear or universally accepted definition for being in love.  However, there is a universally observable phenomenon that is variously known as a crush, infatuation, being in love, romantic [...]

When did you know you were in love?

| April 14, 2009

*This is another Discussion Question, meant for readers to respond to and talk about. Please offer comments… Was there a moment where you crossed the line, emotionally, from “before” to “after?” Was it more of a gradual awareness? Was it love at first sight? Was it something you ignored or fought against for a while, [...]

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