Hi!

| December 30, 2008

Hi, it’s good to see folks visiting this website about the experience of unrequited love.  This is meant to be a participatory discussion, not a monologue. Please leave comments!  You don’t have to give personal information to comment.  The system will ask for your name and an email address but you can just make stuff [...]

What’s So Great About Unrequited Love?

| June 27, 2011

Well, it turns out that quite a lot about unrequited love is great. Now, I’ll admit, usually when I recall my experiences with unrequited love, especially the most recent one, it’s not a particularly praiseworthy remembrance. I generally cringe and hit my forehead, undoubtedly looking like Homer J. Simpson (“doh!”). However, unrequited love really does [...]

Valentine’s Day – Melancholy

| February 14, 2011

Ok, Valentine’s Day! I have been neglecting this site but I simply must post something for Valentine’s Day… Valentine’s Day, that most potent of days, for all lovers, even unrequited ones. Some of us in unrequited love may anxiously obsess, others may drift through the day draped in melancholy. So much of unrequited love involves [...]

Got Low Self-Esteem?

| November 4, 2010

Hi, I thought I’d start writing some posts built around some of the search terms that are frequently used to find this site.  A really frequent phrase combo is something like “unrequited love low self-esteem.”  Many people wonder what it means to fall in unrequited love, does it mean you have low self-esteem for “choosing” [...]

“I Love You” — “What?!”

| March 30, 2010

So, someone has declared their undying love for you.  And you don’t feel the same.  How uncomfortable!  Someone saying they are in love with you when you don’t love them in return is an experience most of us wish we would never have.  However, the truth is that it is actually an experience that most [...]

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