Lonesome Loser | November 28, 2009
Here’s a post for those of us who like questionnaires, charts, graphs, all the various accoutrements of science that make us feel things are more official.
Briefly, attachment theory is a psychological theory of relationships that suggests our relationship styles with parental figures in early infancy predict our relationship styles as adults. In other words, our [...]
Lonesome Loser | November 27, 2009
Please forgive the overly personal nature of this post. I’m trying not to re-start my personal blog, I need it to be finished at some point, but I’m really feeling the desire to write from a personal perspective the last few days.
I’ve recently returned from Thanksgiving dinner at my (former) in-laws, while (ex)spouse is visiting [...]
Lonesome Loser | June 17, 2009
It’s interesting to notice how often we indirectly communicate romantic love and/or sexual attraction when we’re not really aware of doing so. For example, facial expressions you aren’t aware of, standing too close to your Loved One, or avoiding standing too near them. Maybe you talked too much about your Loved One with friends or [...]
Lonesome Loser | May 12, 2009
I’ve been surfing the net and finding there’s a lot of bad advice out there about unrequited love. The superficial or manifest level of communication tends to go something like
“Gee, that’s too bad. It’s so painful. This isn’t really love, it’s limerence. It’s nothing to be ashamed of, but it is a place you can [...]
Lonesome Loser | March 8, 2009
The intention of this website is to explore the nature of unrequited love from both experiential and social psychological perspectives. It includes a participatory discussion of unrequited love from a non-pathologized viewpoint, recommended links and books that might be of help or interest to the unrequited lover, an open invitation to participate in surveys on [...]
Please feel free to contact me at LONESOME LOSER*, I'd love to hear from you. I will make every effort to answer each email.
*This moniker sounds considerably more pathetic than I actually feel, but I just couldn't resist the tongue-in-cheek description.
: Richard Walden, I love you with every cell of my body. You are the reason I exist, my "raison d'etre". You kept me sane. What [...]
: S- It's been 13 years since we saw each other, 11 since we last talked. Even though we parted under a cloud, I have never had [...]
: Joe, I love you with all my heart and if you you wake up one day and discover you're all alone, I'll still be there [...]
: Marilyn, Yes, I do love you...I am slowly letting you go, but it is so difficult sometimes when you seem to want my friendship even [...]
: If you truly knew how I felt; this is crazy but it's the truth; please find your way back to me; this is tearing me [...]
: To: J.B. I won't be that girl who cries in front of you just to get crumbs of your affection. I won't beg you to love [...]
: jairyl.....i hate u for being the one that i love
: Her name starts with S...when I looked into her eyes for the first time, something happened to me...I wasnt the same anymore...I changed my whole [...]
: If I could, I would stop loving you, Becker. I would stop, and turn away. But I just can't. I'm sorry.
: I know you love me....bryan
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