(I need to reiterate that “The Naming Wall” is a place for us to name the person we are/were in love with, not a place to post quotes or stories. Please post your personal stories, quotes, etc., as comments in response to regular posts.)
Admit it. You’re in love or you have been in love and you would love to say her/his name out loud. Well, now’s your chance to say who you love “write out loud,” at least we will be listening…
Please feel free to contact me at LONESOME LOSER*, I'd love to hear from you. I will make every effort to answer each email.
*This moniker sounds considerably more pathetic than I actually feel, but I just couldn't resist the tongue-in-cheek description.
: I offered you the best that I could offer. It wasn't enough for you. My love lasts forever, but now, I will no longer act on it, I will [...]
: 4 years and i still feel as strongely as i did when i first met you.now that highschool is over tomorrow may be the last [...]
: Carol, 14 years older than I am. I'm her intern and I shouldn't have fallen for her, but I did...
: I love you so much Michael....so very much.
: Kelly. The earth has moved nearly fifteen billion miles through space since the hour you called me and told me you did not love me, [...]
: I love you very much, Marilyn. Despite the circumstances (as I continue to struggle with it for the past four years), I will always [...]
: I love you Deborah. And I'm willing to live out my life as a spinster if that'll keep you happy.
: What does she give you that I cant?
: Brian, I love you. I know you felt something for me at one point but I didn't see it then and I only have myself [...]
: Lizzie, you just have no idea. I never gave up. I've lost count of the number of times my heart has been stabbed, but I [...]
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Jessica
Nothing is worse than loving someone you can’t be with.
How cruel of him to reject me, when I laid myself bare.
It is so difficult to be loved by this obsessive person
I love S.
I will spend my whole life without being joined in passion, she is the only one I desire to do that with, and she will never love me that way. I sacrifice everything to her.
Did not feel that I could love in love like this only to have him not reciprocate that love. Wanted to forget on go on but unable to forget.
I love David. He is the great love of my life but we will never be together again.
Emily
Well I am coming at the end of the unrequited love with Neil that went on for 2 1/2 years. But I am happy to say that yes I still love him, but have let go.
Stephanie, maybe one day you’ll understand..
i know its totally wrong but you are so beautiful to me
April. She’ll forever be in my heart, but not in my arms.
SCZ I have never felt this way about anyone before. I only wish you felt the same way.
I think I’ll never stop loving him!
Pxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
i love zach
sara varon. I know you didnt want to hurt me, but ill take it.
kurt
josh, i love you. and you love her. i saw it in your eyes in a picture of you and her together. seeing it killed part of me. the part that wanted to think someday you could love me. but not the part that loves you.
The GWDM. I still think about you, Isaac. I’m sorry I let you go.
S.AHH, my life stopped making sense when I first saw your face.
No one’s beauty can compare to that of Brandi. She has the most beautiful smile, perfect hair, heavenly touch, and the most charming personality. I can’t see a single thing wrong with her.
My lady, you were always Guinevere, and ever bound to my lord Arthur, but this lovesick Galahad cannot stand your new Lancelot, the latest of many. Better to leave the Round Table than see ruin.
Tamara – whose shining beauty is only surpassed by her Joie de vivre
I love you, Katie, but you don’t love me back. Hopefully, you’ll realize I’m worth the risk before I realize you’re not worth the wait.
Ryan, if the experience of being held by you is as you say, “statistically insignificant”, I don’t know what to believe in, anymore. I am lost.
My darling Kieran,
From the first moment I layed eyes on you I was completely smitten. And I never thought I could feel so strongly about someone as I do you. All the time you were sat next to me, or we were walking and talking I didn’t say half the things I wanted to. I have so much I want to say…but you don’t want to listen. All you need to say is that you feel the same way, it’s so simple…you could completely change it all…but you won’t. You don’t feel the same, and I will never be with you the way I want to be. Some day soon, we will be parting ways for good and I will never see again…and you’ll never know how much I care for you. Although I don’t think you would even care, would you? And yeah maybe she is beautiful and smart and funny….everything I’m not, but she’ll never love you like I do. I believed in you so much, I really thought you’d be the one….how wrong I was. My feelings for you will fade over time, and I know I won’t always feel so tortured, but I will never forget you, those eyes, that hair…your smile. You took my heart and you don’t even know it…and you will always have a part of it. Always and forever, my unrequited love. x
I will do the same again just to know that you are smiling in someone’s arms. I’m sorry, I guess I’ll be going first. Good night A.
Sean, I will always be thinking of you. My feelings for you are stronger than you could imagine.
I’m sorry.
How could you say u loved me and no live without me?
Each day my soul cries out for you..and you are never there.
Matt, I have loved you since we first met seventeen years ago. It’s been at least three or four years since we last spoke, more than that since we last saw one another, and I feel no different today than I ever have. I will die long before I will be able to love another. I know you don’t care, and that you don’t even think about me, but I will always be waiting in vain for you.
Jamie. I hope you go to a different college just so I won’t see you everyday. Then I might get over you.
Elaine.
Tom,
You are first and last thought of every day. I can’t stop thinking about you even though I know you don’t feel the same way. Those nights we had together will always be close to my heart.
Devin. my best friend of 12 years. i know find myself falling in love with him.
My heart is heavy with this burden.I’m in love with my best friend who loves another. My soul cries but I’ll never let you see it.
Jerry , Oh, how I think about you daily… I wish there were a way to tell you my feelings.
Michelle
Michael, I’d never felt for someone in such a way that I actually counted the minutes until we could meet again. That is, “Til There Was You.”
Victoria. You’ve lighted my heart and soul on fire and its burning me alive. I’ve been longing to see you and to be with you, and I haven’t been able to get you out of my mind. I’ve never felt so strongly for another as I do for you. I know you will probably never feel the same way about me, and I have no idea if its meant to be. But I hope that one day you will know how I truly feel about you. Ever since I’ve laid eyes on you I’ve been on an emotional roller coaster. You make me feel truly alive.
With you I am free/I love you with all my heart/Why can’t you love me?
I can never forgive you for what you did to me. You pretended to love me for your own cheap thrills. I was inconceivably infatuated with you and you crushed me. I hope you get hit by a fucking bus.
I absolutely adore Mary. While there is still a tiny fragment of hope, for the moment I must lament that it cannot be, as she is dating my mortal enemy (my mortal enemy being any man who dates her and isn’t me).
While I’m at it, let’s take care of the backlog. I love(d) Holly, Katie, Stacey, Kimberly, Laura, Alexis, Lindsey, Rachel, Whitney, Becky, Nicki, Elisha, 3 different Elizabeths, Kaitlyn, Jenny, Stephanie, and going all the way back to the 1st grade, Ashley.
Wow…I really suck at love.
i don’t know what to do
i can’t stop loving geline no matter what i do..
its been 3 years and i don’t know why but i can’t love anybody but her i can’t feel anything from anyone other than her..hope this helps me
I’ve been in love with Piumika for as long as I remember. Not even trying to go after 2 other girls has succeeded in making me forget her. I really wish I wasn’t such a loser.
Vitaliy, I adore you with all my heart. I’m still waiting for you to come to your senses. I will continue to wait while you torture me with your presence and speak of that terrible word “friendship.” If you only knew how many tears I’ve shed in despair and frustration. Every mention or picture of your once “ex” is like a thousand knives tearing me to pieces.How can you give her another chance and not permit me a single one?
Mike genuinely changed my life for the better. I will always look back at the time when he was in my life with wistful longing. He always called me Sunshine, when really, he was the sunshine in my life. When I close my eyes, I still see his face. I haven’t heard from him since Novemeber, but there hasn’t been a day since that he hasn’t been in my thoughts. I will always love him with every ounce of my soul, and even though I know and logically understand why he is keeping his distance…my heart dies a little bit more everyday. I love you, Mike and you definately are NOT as common as a fence post.
Albert. I love you more than anything and everything in the world combined. You own me, mind, body and soul.
Michael, I can’t help that I still like you. I know it was awkward how I let you know, but my feelings never changed…..
Its so frustrating after 20 years I found that you felt the same way as I did. We should have the conversation we had yesterday 24 years ago.
i’m in love with a very close friend named oliver. i feel sometimes i’m like his slave. i know its not meant to be. but i can’t stop my feelings.
Simon
I don’t want be in love with K. I’d rather hate him. But, I can’t. I tried rationalizing things in my mind. It doesn’t seem to work. I can’t stop looking at him when he’s around and when he’s not I kept thinking about him. This feeling, it’s just a crush. But, it hurts because you know there’s no way it’ll develop into anything more. Although he haunts your world, you don’t even exist in his.
I have been in love with Brandon since the day that I have met him and am looking forward to the day where I can put it to the side. You’re gay, sweetheart. I can’t do this anymore and honestly I’m afraid that if I were not feeling this way that our friendship would die. That this has been the one thing keeping me to you and I would just walk away. I love you, and have to figure out a way to kill the feelings without killing the friendship.
Eric,
it is sometimes painful to be your friend, when I am so very much in love with you.
j, i love you like all these other people here love their people. i let you go just so you can be happy, because i couldn’t make you laugh forever. it makes me cry to see all this pain here
Nicole, I died on 11/15/2007 I really thought the feeling
would at least fade…or mute..but it never has. Sometimes I go a day or two without thinking about you. Alas that tends to be rare. I suppose it is my punishment to carry these feelings forever. It just wasnt meant to be, and I had to let you go on with your life. I close my eyes and can see your face, feel your warmth, smell your hair. You will never know what a simple hug meant.
Caz I love you with all my soul, you tell me about your broken heart everyday, I want to heal it, I want to love you and have you love me too!
K. Becker. It just does not make sense. Why this late in my life I could be hit by something like this. Life is pathetic.
I can’t stop loving you; wish I could because it hurts that you don’t love me.
Eric, I have loved you since the day we met. Please release me.
Just one hour??
I would love to talk alone. Sweet words. God, my heart needs to be released from this
Spencer
Jon, get out of my head. Get out of my heart.
jim, i told you how i feel and how i have felt about you for a decade now. if only you felt the same, i would be the happiest woman alive.
HEATHER
Ron – I am learning to live without you as I know we can never be together. My life seems so drab and dull without the colour and passion that loving you seemed to create. You will never know how I felt about you but I wish you a long and happy life my love!
DCC- I have to let you go now!
Maybe our paths will cross someday, maybe not
good luck as I let go of you, my unrequtted love…….
Max
Derek.
Deana. I love her so much. She lights up a dark and dreary world like nobody else.
Ash, there are so many reasons not to, not the least of which is your indifference.
Emily, I love you and I think you’re perfect. I just wish I had realized it sooner.
Tajh…
Amy
Peter
i love you. i only wish you loved me.
Glyn- despite all that’s happened, I always loved you. I was too scared to tell you. I hope I get the chance in the future.
Rodney – I am sorry I didn’t fight for you. I was scared and now I regret it.
Kurt U. L., myh love and apologies
Heather
Audrey
I love you, Michael….
Jamie, forever ever I will love you. I will win your heart.
Mel I told you and you couldn’t return it.
i love you..too bad it had to be the one man who will never love me back.
The one who didn’t tell me he had any feelings..until 12 years later..now that we’re both married ..to other ppl =(
HC
I wish I hadn’t let the fear of rejection hold me back – I have never forgotten you R and never will
Marilyn…..
i love you but u only c me as a friend and it hurts to know that u hav complete control of my feelings…..it’s because i love u for 5 yrs and i think u already know…
Nick L.
I love you Ed. I know you’ll never love me back. It hurts,it hurts so bad.
Jamie <3
RM
Steve
Dominic-at least I can’t say I didn’t try.
Sadie,
You captivated me in a lovesick prison which I have yet to be free from. I want to go to a college away from where she’s going so I can forget the last couple years of my unrequited love. I wish she felt the same way I feel about her but it just won’t happen. I hope you’ll be happy in the years to come, even though the last couple years for me were miserably sweet.
I would give you everything I have but you don’t want it. You call me every day, but don’t feel the same. My heart is growing dim…
Nataliya B
Pamela Jane
your wild card needs playing. don’t believe the lies, your dragon needs no slaying.
I’m so in love with you.
i love you kea, but what hurts the most is being so close but can’t say or do anything.. then just watch you walk away
jason
Lorie. But she’s in love with someone else & not interested & i’m in a long termer. It breaks my heart.
Kyle- I love you! I dont totally understand why, but I do! You dont have to love me back, but you have my heart regardless!
Joanna Marie Yulo!!!!
I did my best, and i have moved on, but I don’t know why it keeps coming back to me. I can’t stop thinking about you!! But I will always keep my promise to you that we will always stay friends. But deep inside, I still love you!!
I don’t know if it will come or not, whether loved or not loved, I will never ever regret my love for you, no matter how much it hurts……
you love her.. i just wish you loved me atleast knew that i have ever since the day i met you.
Noah
It is all in vain
but i still do
Leslie, I thought my ex had cured me of this disease called love. I guess not. Love stinks
I know you love me….bryan
If I could, I would stop loving you, Becker. I would stop, and turn away. But I just can’t. I’m sorry.
Her name starts with S…when I looked into her eyes for the first time, something happened to me…I wasnt the same anymore…I changed my whole life to try and be a more nobel and good person, the kind of man that could be with someone as beautiful and good as her…she thought of me as a friend…that was all…I loved her so bad it hurt, for years, I would think about her and cry…nothing like that ever happened to me before, I feel like a different person after meeting her than I was before, and I really really don’t want to go back to being that other person, because to me, he sucks compared to who I was when I loved her…and now, she is gone. I don’t know how to move on or what direction to go. I have someone new in my life, but I cant forget S…I feel like a horrible person for this…like a slime…I should just forget S, but I feel like if I lose S, I will lose myself too
jairyl…..i hate u for being the one that i love
To: J.B.
I won’t be that girl who cries in front of you just to get crumbs of your affection. I won’t beg you to love me back. I’m not the kind of person who fights a losing battle… I know when not to persist.
I’m not going to tell you I love you.
I won’t burden you with that.
I won’t have you feeling guilty that you don’t love me the way I want you to.
It’s a selfish thing to do, I think; telling the one you love what you feel for them even knowing that they don’t and won’t feel the same about you.
I’m going to work on getting over you.
But I’m thankful that I fell in love with you. You made me feel something beautiful. Painful, yes, but beautiful nonetheless.
And I will forever be grateful that I met you and fell in love with you.
If you truly knew how I felt; this is crazy but it’s the truth; please find your way back to me; this is tearing me in two; I never thought I could cry so much; I miss you soooooo much
Marilyn,
Yes, I do love you…I am slowly letting you go, but it is so difficult sometimes when you seem to want my friendship even more so. I am trying to be a good friend because I want what’s best for you even though my feelings sometimes get in the way. I know our friendship has changed — the subtleties you make and the conditions you have drawn. Although the condition you’ve made has hurt me, I’m trying to overlook it and accept the hidden reasons behind these subtleties. I believe my unconditional love for you will hopefully make you understand who I am — a person who truly cares for you regardless of the circumstances. I pray someday you will see it. Marilyn, I love you so much…
Joe, I love you with all my heart and if you you wake up one day and discover you’re all alone, I’ll still be there for you.
S-
It’s been 13 years since we saw each other, 11 since we last talked. Even though we parted under a cloud, I have never had the feelings with anyone else than what I had for you. You and I live in two different worlds now. And we are happy in our own. I know you never loved me the way I still do for you now, but for that brief moment on a Wednesday night, with you, I discovered what love was. And because I love you, I will leave you to your happiness.
Thank you.
Richard Walden, I love you with every cell of my body. You are the reason I exist, my “raison d’etre”. You kept me sane. What about all the dreams? Everything we had? I put all my faith in you, and you just threw it away. But none of that matters.
“I Live On Vibrant Earth, Yet Only Underground.”
x
im in love with ryan the guy ive met once. yet thnx to the internet i gwt to talk to every day he helps me with problems he is the only person who knows the real me. hes so unselfish and i love him already but he has a girlfriend and loves her. so my world is dark.
Kelly Knight
Eric.
This goes out to a teen actress:Haley Ramm,I love you please be mine…whenever I see your beautiful face,I just want to kiss you and hold you in my arms forever.God,I love you so much it hurts…I want to leave to Toluca lake…please wait for me…please…
It’s been almost three years since I watched Ben10:race against time and not a day went by that you havent been in my mind…oh,your beautiful,red hair intoxicates me,and I just get lost in your bright,blue eyes…Here I am in Tucson,Arizona without you longing for you.Years stuck in this wasteland without a voice to tell you that I love you…you are the perfect American girl,Haley Ramm.You are everything and more to me.You don’t know me…you don’t even knew I existed and it makes me sad…
Ok, these are obviously multiple postings by Emo/vermillion. I’m instituting a rule that only two postings on the naming wall by the same person are allowed. Sorry, Emo, two will have to do…LL
shawn
Mike, I should have seen you when you saw me. I was foolish then and now you make it seem like its too late. All these mixed signals drive me crazy. But here’s what I know for sure. I think about you everyday and just the thought of you makes me smile. I can imagine our life together- dating, traveling, getting married, kids.. I think you’ll always be that person I wonder about. Hopefully one day I won’t have to wonder. Here’s to hope. If not, i’ll always see you in my dreams.
john…don’t regret loving you…just don’t like what my heat now lives with
John, so upset I can’t even write without mistyping; entry should read: John, don’tr egret loving you although the heart aches so badly…just don’t like what my heart now is living with…and your life just goes on…ah…….make it stop.any advise?
Alfred,
I know that we will never be together and that is the pain in my heart. I’m glad that you allow me to still be in your life even though it is only as a friend. I don’t know why I feel the way that I do about you and why I can’t let you go. I’m just happy for seeing you and talking to you. I love you even though you will never love me….
Rachel, my love for you stands true and deep. I know where I stand in your heart. You might see this one day. Maybe that’s the time where our true story starts. I will always love you.
Noel why did you tell me that you had all these feelings when we were younger now if you’re not inclined or in a position to act on them. I’m ready and willing. All you did was hurt me. I’d rather not have known and remained blissfully ignorant and unbruised. I want to be with you and you’re with someone else…I don’t understand.
Amy
Anna
Jeremy
Andy – I always knew you didn’t feel the same. I always knew that if I told you I would lose a good friend. & now I have told you I don’t know what to say. Tongue tied & wordless I feel you slipping away. I am going to miss my friend so much. I wish I’d never said anything. You were indeed my knight in shining armour & you always will be. Xx
Ashley
Anita. For too many years.
Patricia, you led me on. We did things that other couples would do. We spent countless hours talking on the phone at night. We even held hands. You gave me a ride and then kicked me to the curb, bitch! But i still love you… and i think i always will.
frankie, maybe i’m not in love, but that’s where this is heading. you’re my best friend and i know where we stand. we’re young and there’s time. maybe i’ll get over you, or maybe you’ll love me back someday.
Michael, this is the only place I can say I LOVE YOU without risking our friendship….I LOVE YOU MICHAEL
Olivia, the thing I want most is for you to be happy. I only wish you could be happy with me.
Amy
She makes me really GET Bob Dylan’s Blood on the Tracks
Bunkie!…Mike…I miss you
J… Just when it seems I’m finally over you, something always makes me falter and fall all over again for you. I know you’ll never see me as anything but a good friend; I’ve said that to myself a million times, it seems. But my heart refuses to listen. Even if it breaks again and again while I watch you moon over you’re latest love, it seems hell-bent on loving you and only you. I can’t make it stop. I can’t stop that pathetic little voice in my head asking “why can’t it be me?”…
I know the chances are slim I’ll ever call you mine, but nothing ever ends well sneaking around with a married man.
i have loved and i always will..if we can’t have it here,in our next life maybe it would be something.
Daniel
Veronica, your friendship is one of the most fulfilling thing in my life…so I can tell you how I feel…but at the same time…it’s getting harder and harder to keep these feelings bottled…you made me do many things I never imagined I’d do in my life…you helped me change if only a tiny bit for the better…you made me laugh you made me cry…and I fell for you…unfortunately you don’t see me as nothing more than a good friend…but I can’t stop hoping for something more…so…the only place I can freely express my feelings is here…
I love you…
..and so i told myself…Be STILL stupid heart..
I really love you Putri. I know that you will never be mine and you’re always going to be his. But I will always be waiting for you, and only God can stop me from loving you. I hope one day you will love me and if you do, My life is complete. But for now, I am the best of your best friends because in your eyes, I’m just a friend to you… And even if in my life you will always see me as a friend, I will always see you as an angel sent by God to cure my Borderline Personality Disorder. So thank you for everything you did to me and I want to shout, I LOVE YOU PUTRI ANDINI!!!
There is nothing worse than loving somebody that use to love you. Thats where I am. I am in love with my ex boyfriend. Its almost been a month since we broke up. He told me that he would love me forever and never break up with me, and I believed him and I told him the same thing. When he broke up with me that day, May 17th 2010 with our 4 month anniversary coming up on the 20th of May and my birthday that weekend, after just telling me that day how much he loved me, he broke up with me telling me he wasnt ready for a long term relationship and how sorry he was. I got mad and yelled at him because he had just told me that day how much he loved me. He even got mad when I was going to go out on a date. I remember being very confused. Now its June 6th 2010, I got a new boyfriend that Im crazy about, but Im still in love with my ex boyfriend. I bet I always will be. I hope there is a second chance in store for us in the future but until then I will be strong and be his friend again, but Im not ready yet to be his friend, but I know I will be soon no matter how painful it will be. Unrequited love hurts, but I feel like Im handling it pretty well and I hope it continues to get better every day.
Roy
Holly
Lizzie, you just have no idea. I never gave up. I’ve lost count of the number of times my heart has been stabbed, but I reach for you even as you tread across the world.
Brian, I love you. I know you felt something for me at one point but I didn’t see it then and I only have myself to blame. I know you wish you didn’t remember, and I wish I didn’t either. I love you so much and I just want to tell you how sorry I am for everything.
What does she give you that I cant?
I love you Deborah. And I’m willing to live out my life as a spinster if that’ll keep you happy.
I love you very much, Marilyn. Despite the circumstances (as I continue to struggle with it for the past four years), I will always express the unconditional love for you. You will always be in my heart and prayer.
Kelly. The earth has moved nearly fifteen billion miles through space since the hour you called me and told me you did not love me, but my heart hasn’t moved an inch. You condemned it to freeze in the void. I don’t think I’ve closed my eyes once since then without your image haunting me. Do I wish I could forget you? Do I wish that you’d return – that ‘always’ could still mean something? I don’t know anymore.
I pray that wherever you are, you’re safe and happy. If this pain were the cost of that, I’d gladly bear it. But the world isn’t so poetic, is it? The utter meaninglessness of it all hurts the most. Why? What did I do wrong? You never even told me.
I love you so much Michael….so very much.
Carol, 14 years older than I am. I’m her intern and I shouldn’t have fallen for her, but I did…
4 years and i still feel as strongely as i did when i first met you.now that highschool is over tomorrow may be the last day i ever see you in the flesh again. i will always love you. nobody even compares to you Louis.
I offered you the best that I could offer.
It wasn’t enough for you.
My love lasts forever,
but now,
I will no longer act on it,
I will watch you from the sidelines,
keeping all harm away from you.
I like to believe that everything happens for a reason,
We met because there is something I need to learn,
Now I think that I will be better than I ever could have been if I didn’t meet you,
And all this goodness I will reserve for the one who comes after you.
I thank you for making me who I am now,
both for me and for her,
wherever she is.